Does this situation sound familiar? You and your child are playing and you go to start dinner and WHAM your child throws their toy at their sister. You go out there to reprimand your child, have them say sorry to their sister and maybe move the sister into another room. Then you go back to making dinner. Then BOOM your child knocks over a lamp. You go in and reprimand them and offer them to help you make dinner so you can keep an eye on them.
Maybe you have this issue; everytime you put your child to bed they are up every 10 minutes asking for water or one more story or to check their closet for monsters. Maybe after the 5th try to put them back to bed you just bring them into your bed to sleep because you need your sleep too.
Whatever the scenario, Applied Behavior Analysis (ABA) can help with these situations.
ABA is a research-based science. We observe behavior, take data, and come up with the “why” someone does or does not do a specific behavior. Then we can use the principles of ABA to change and shape that behavior into something new that is a more appropriate and effective way to get their needs met.
Before we break down different scenarios let’s establish some basics
Alright so let’s look at the 2 examples we started with.
You have to be able to cook dinner without your child hurting their sister or breaking items and it’s unreasonable that you are available to your child 24/7. Now that we know the function of the behavior, attention, we can teach a more appropriate way to get it. This may look like teaching the child how to interrupt during dinner to talk to you for a few seconds before going back to play or it could mean teaching leisure skills to your child so they are able to occupy their own time. Another solution would be to teach your child to play appropriately with their sister so they can receive appropriate attention from her.
Let’s look at our second example.
If you are wanting to have your child sleeping in their own bed there are several things that may be effective. One is that you can start a reward system where the child gets a strong reward in the morning, like 10 minutes of iPad before school, for staying in their bed all night. Another way is to start the child out in their bed with a parent and the parent moves away after the child falls asleep. But wait! That’s not a long term solution as a child should eventually learn to put themselves to sleep. What can you do? Slowly start moving further away from your child. Instead of laying with them you sit on the bed and hold their hand, then the floor, then the doorway, and then the hallway until they are falling asleep without your presence.
ABA is a dense and exciting topic and if you are looking into ABA know that it can help you and your family develop new skills to approach everyday life, but don’t let this post fool you. ABA can be applied to any behavior like academics, personal hygiene, making friends, and learning how to communicate just to name a few!
Written By: Natalie M. Kulesza, MS, BCBA
Natalie has been serving individuals with developmental delays and genetic disorders since 2009. She started as a Client Assistant Program (CAP) worker working one-on-one in the home and community settings providing habilitative services to adolescents with autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD), Cerebral Palsy, and Down syndrome. During this time, her interest in behavior modification grew and she went on to train families and staff members in behavior protocols as a Natural Supports Education (NSE) instructor at a local case management agency. As she gathered her field hours toward her BCBA credential, she worked as an ABA tutor and eventually a Registered Behavior Technician (RBT) at a local ABA agency serving individuals with ASD. In 2013 she received her Masters of Science in Psychology with a focus in Applied Behavior Analysis (ABA) and in 2015 earned her BCBA credential. Natalie has worked in private and charter schools, daycares, day programs, camps, alternative family living (AFL) arrangements, homes, and clinic settings. In 2017 she contracted with a case management company in the eastern part of NC as a Specialized Consultative Service (SCS) provider to consult on challenging behaviors for individuals with developmental delays and serious mental illnesses. She consulted with these individuals in intensive behavior clinics, in-home, and in the community. Over time, she began exclusively working in the out-patient setting consulting with families, mentoring BCBAs, and supervising graduate students in the Triangle area. Her passion for serving pre-teens, teens, and adults inspired her to create and host monthly teen events and eventually led her to become a PEERS Certified Instructor through UCLAs Semel Institute where she was trained to provide evidence-based social skills treatment to adolescents (12-21 years-old). Natalie has continued to work with client’s and families in the Triangle area and has recently become an Authorized Continuing Education (ACE) provider through the Behavior Analytic Certification Board to provide and host continuing education opportunities to professionals in the field of Behavior Analysis. Natalie joined Triangle ABA in November of 2021 and is thrilled to be working in early intervention again!
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